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"By
Whose Values"
a sermon delivered by the Reverend Barbara D. Morgan
with assistance from Betsy Johnson, Gordon Hart, Mark
Lane and Mimi Ghosh
on Sunday, February 22, 1998
at Community Unitarian Universalist Church of Volusia
County
in Daytona Beach, Florida
Players
Delight: Barbara Morgan
Roberta: Betsy Johnson
Michael: Gordon Hart
Jeffrey: Mark Lane
Madeline: Mimi Ghosh
DELIGHT (BARBARA): Good Morning and welcome to "Talk
of Volusia" from WUUC. This is Delight Bruehl, your host.
Our guests today are Roberta Mitchell, the newly called minister
to Growing Church in Port Orange; Michael Smith, a milk delivery
man in DeLand; Jeffrey Thompson, a linesman for Southern Bell;
and Madeline Baker, a student and basketball player at Beach
High School in Daytona Beach. Each of our guests is a member
of Growing Church. They have agreed to talk with us today to
illustrate one example of the way a church can grow. When we
talk about growth, we usually think about growth in numbers.
Today Roberta, Michael, Jeffrey and Madeline will help us demonstrate
another way to measure growth by the spiritual maturity of its
members.
Each of our four guests is on a spiritual path. Roberta follows
the Path of Unity; Michael follows the Path of Devotion; Jeffrey
follows the Path of Works and Madeline follows the Path of Harmony.
All members of Growing Church believe something slightly different
about God. Some dont believe in God. Some do. Those that dont
have different reasons for believing what they do, and those
who do have different reasons for believing what they do. Therefore,
Growing Church doesn't have a creed. They tried to have a creed
back in the 19th century, and it took almost fifty years of debate
before they dropped the whole idea. Today they have a set of
seven principles guides to behavior, rather than a statement
of belief. Those of you who are listening to our broadcast with
your program guides in front of you will note that the principles
are printed on the inside front cover. Our focus for this program
will be the second principle. "As members of Growing Church
we covenant to affirm and promote justice, equity, and compassion
in human relations." Also, another listening aid is a chart
we prepared and have distributed over the last three weeks. If
you have never seen this chart and would like to see one, please
raise your hand. By the miracle of super telecommunication we
will discern your raised hand and transport a copy of the chart
to you. We ask that only those new to our program raise their
hands. The rest of you can dig your charts out of the garbage
can, or the desk, or the drawer of your night stand. Its time
now to talk with our guests. Lets first talk with Roberta Mitchell,
as I mentioned, the newly called minister of Growing Church in
Port Orange. Good morning Reverend Mitchell.
ROBERTA (BETSY): Good morning, Delight. Thank you for inviting
me to be on your program.
DELIGHT: Rev. Mitchell, I understand that you've only recently
arrived in Port Orange from Nova Scotia. Is that right?
ROBERTA: Yes, That's right. I'm having difficulty adjusting
to your climate. Right now in Nova Scotia its very cold. Your
weather seems tropical by comparison.
DELIGHT: Rev. Mitchell, I wonder if you would tell me what
spiritual path you follow.
ROBERTA: Delight, please call me Roberta. Now, you ask me
about my spiritual path. I am a follower of the Path of Unity.
DELIGHT: Rev. Mitchell, I mean Roberta, can you tell me a
story about how you honor the second principle of Growing Church.
What issues of justice, equity and compassion have you encountered
this week?
ROBERTA: Let me tell you about an incident in my life which
I think will illustrate how I walk my path. I read in the paper
a week ago last Friday that an author, Bettye Collier- Thomas
would be signing copies of her new book at Bethune-Cookman College.
The book is titled Daughters of Thunder, Black Women Preachers
and Their Sermons, 1850-1979. I was thrilled to read about this
event. As a woman minister I am always interested to read about
those women
who helped make it possible for me to be a minister. You know,
it wasn't until the 19th century that any woman was ordained.
The first white woman was ordained in 1853 and the first black
woman was ordained in 1895. I had never heard of Dr. Collier-Thomas
before, but I had a hunch her book would be terrific. I decided
Id like to meet her and see her book. Also, I was wanted to visit
Bethune-Cookman College. As I have only recently arrived in Port
Orange, I had not yet been there. Now, the next part I want to
tell you is a little embarrassing. As I drove through Bethune
Village, a public housing project, on my way to the college I
found myself feeling superior. I found myself thinking how lucky
Dr. Collier-Thomas was that I had read that little, tiny squib
in the paper and that I was taking the time to come look at her
book and perhaps buy a copy. Now I wasn't proud of my feelings,
but That's my confession. As the fates would have it, I was the
one to feel lucky. Not only was Dr. Collier-Thomas a warm, inviting
and encouraging person, so were all the other scholars I met
in the first ten minutes I was in the room. And all of these
people were women, all of them were African Americans, and all
of them were PhDs! I realized then that I still have work to
do to rearrange my thinking in order to work our second principle.
I also decided to go to the anti-racism workshop were having
at our church in March. I think it will help me.
DELIGHT: What workshop is that?
ROBERTA: The workshop is titled "Creating A Jubilee World";
it will be held March 13th and 14th at our church.
DELIGHT: Where can our listeners get more information about
the workshop.
ROBERTA: If they will phone or fax Charley Barcelo, 767-4189
hell gladly respond.
DELIGHT: That number again?
ROBERTA: 767-4189.
DELIGHT: Well, thank you Rev. Mitchell. We appreciate your
very personal and honest testimony to the difficulty of living
the second principle of Growing Church. Our next guest is Michael
Smith, a milkman in DeLand. Michael, I Didn't think there was
such a thing as a milkman anymore.
MICHAEL (GORDON): Well, Delight, there isn't. We are milk
truck drivers, and we are both men and women. Although I admit
it takes a mighty strong woman to heft full racks of fill milk
bottles.
DELIGHT: And mighty strong men, too, no doubt. Michael, you
follow the Path of Devotion. What exactly does that mean?
MICHAEL: Its hard for me to talk about. I'm better at doing
it.
DELIGHT: Can you give me an example of how you live the second
principle of Growing Church, Michael?
MICHAEL: Well I can tell you about something that happened
to me the other day. I've been having trouble with my heart.
My doctor told me he wanted me to go up to the Nuclear Medicine
department of one of your big hospitals over there in East Volusia,
and take some special tests. I Didn't want to do it. I'm afraid
that Ill have to quit my job because of my heart, and I like
my job. Well, my wife and I drove over to your side of the county
and went to the hospital and we were
told to sit in this very boring small room with five chairs in
it. And they Didn't tell us how long wed have to wait there.
There were no windows, nothing to look at. The longer we had
to wait, the more anxious I got, both because I was worried and
because I had nothing to do. And then the door burst open and
this guy and a woman, I guess his wife, came in. Now Lottie and
me That's my wife, Lottie we were like little mice in the corner
of the barn compared to this guy. He was like a bull, not mean
or anything, just big and taking up a lot of space, a lot of
space. He and his wife were laughing and talking with each other
like they were on their way to a party. And then he started trying
to talk to Lottie and me. Now, if there's anything I dont like
to do when I'm waiting for God knows what kind of a heart test,
its talk to strangers. But this guy was persistent. "Why
are you here?" he asked. Trying to give as little information
as possible, I mumbled something about my heart. Well, even that
little bit was like a feast for him. He looked so happy and pleased.
"Why, I Didn't know they did that here!" he exclaimed,
and then a big smile spread over his face and he told me how
glad he was to hear that they were doing this for the heart.
I just grunted in response, and started counting the flecks of
brown in the floor tiles. But something had happened in that
room. I could feel it. Lottie could feel it, too, I know. So
I changed my position in the chair, leaning back instead of hunched
over, and he started asking me questions. I found myself telling
him all sorts of personal stuff. He laughed a lot. Not at me,
but with me, like he knew how difficult it was to put up with
the medical establishment. Finally, I asked him why he was there.
He told me he had cancer. He told me easy, like the way he walked
into the room, without hesitation. I told me the cancer was metastasizing
all over his body. He said he had come to let the "machine"
tell him how far things had advanced. I couldnt believe my ears.
I took a really good look at this man. I noticed his big, watery
eyes, and his brown shoes and his gray slacks and his wash and
wear shirt that must have been thirty years old, and I thought,
"This guy is down to basics!" He started talking again,
"Cancer has not been all bad. We have two sons. It has given
us time. I could not have gone before. Its all ready now."
When he said that last part, I noticed the loving expression
on his wifes face. So you ask me how I live with justice, equity
and compassion in my life. I squirm at the injustice that I get
to have my heart looked at by a fancy machine and a child who
needs an ear infection looked at doesn't get it looked at because
her family is so poor they cant afford to leave work half a day
or more to take her to the doctor and they don't have any money
to pay the doctor anyways, and she goes deaf. I feel proud that
our dairy pays men and women the same pay for the same work.
Its one of the reasons why I love my job. I like working for
an employer who treats people fairly. And as for compassion,
well I have a ways to go on that one. At least expressing it.
My latest teacher wears brown shoes and gray slacks, has watery
eyes, a big smile and a hearty laugh. He came to reassure Lottie
and me that we can bear anything. Maybe he is one of Gods angels.
That's about all I have to say, Delight.
DELIGHT: Michael, That's a lot. I hope everything turns out
ok for you and Lottie. Thanks for being with us on "Talk
of Volusia". Our next guest is Jeffrey Thompson, a linesman
for Southern Bell. Good morning, Jeffrey or is it Jeff?
JEFFREY (MARK): Jeff is fine. Good morning to you, too, Delight.
DELIGHT: I'm told that you follow the Path of Works, Jeff.
What is it like to follow this path?
JEFFREY: You know, a lot of people can have experiences like
Reverend Mitchell and Michael did, which help them understand
their spiritual path better. I guess I'm not different. But instead
of just an experience, I have to have work to do.
DELIGHT: What kind of work?
JEFFREY: Well, my whole family goes to Growing Church, and
my daughter is active in our youth program. We have a really
terrific youth program. These kids have started an Amnesty International
community chapter, not just a student chapter, but a community
chapter. I'm not entirely clear about the difference, but I know
part of their job is to involve and educate the larger east Volusia
County community.
DELIGHT: How does what your daughter does connect with your
path?
JEFFREY: Well, this community chapter has taken on a very
complex issue. Instead of just trying to get one political prisoner
released, they're going to try to improve conditions in the Kigali
prison in Rwanda. I'm sure you've heard all about the tragic
circumstances in Rwanda and genocide. First it was Hutu extremists
attacking and slaughtering Tutsi civilians in various regions.
Later the Hutu extremists killed moderate Hutus as well, especially
if they chose not to take part in the genocide or who tried to
stop the genocide. It was a bloodbath. In three months one third
of the entire Tutsi population in the world had been slaughtered.
After the genocide, more than half of the entire Hutu population
either went into exile, fearing retaliation, or were internally
displaced in the border areas. Tens of thousands of these refugees
died. New fighting broke out, as refugee Hutus attacked indigenous
Tutsi in Zaire. That's how war started in Zaire in early 1997.
DELIGHT: Jeff, how will your daugher's youth group be involved
in trying to change the tragic situation in Rwanda and how does
it help you follow the Path of Works?
JEFFREY: Delight, thanks for helping me get back on track.
I'm just so glad to have the handouts that Amnesty has provided.
They help me to have a better understanding of what has happened
in Rwanda in post-colonial era. What I really want to talk about
is Kigali prison, because That's where my daughters Amnesty chapter
is going to focus their attention. There are all kinds of people
in Kigali prison. Some are murderers. Some have been accused
of being murderers for various reasons, some personal and some
political, but are really victims. And they are just warehoused
there in the most inhuman conditions men and women AND children.
No justice is being meted out. The situation is very inequitable
victims and murders all have the same gruesome experience. And
there seems to be no compassion by any government which could
have a positive influence on the situation. My daughter and her
friends will be advocating for humane and just conditions in
the Kigali prison. In order to be informed advocates, they will
study the history and present situation. I'm very proud that
they have undertaken this project.
DELIGHT: And what about you, Jeff. How does this project help
you follow the Path of Works.
JEFFREY: There I go again. I just work all the time, Delight
telling people the story of the Kigali prison, encouraging them
to come to Amnesty meetings. We have another one next Tuesday
night. You could come if you wanted to, Delight. Six o'clock
to see a great video on the Rwandan situation, seven o'clock
for the meeting.
DELIGHT: And what has this to do with the second principle?
JEFFREY: This group is affirming and promoting justice, equity
and compassion in this very human and difficult situation in
Africa. I'm just riding on their coat tails. As my daughter learns,
I will be learning, too. Didn't Jesus say, "a child shall
lead them" Well, my daughter is leading me, I'm proud to
say. You should have had her on your program instead of me.
DELIGHT: Well, it sounds as if you are a good student, Jeff.
Good luck to you and your daughter in your efforts. Our final
guest this morning is Madeline Baker, a member of the Beach High
School basketball team which recently played in the state semifinals
in Lakeland. How was that experience, Madeline?
MADELINE (MIMI): Really exciting. We Didn't get to play on
the court until we went in to warm up. We were blown away by
how big the place was. We've never played anywhere like that
before!
DELIGHT: How did you do?
MADELINE: We lost. We were just overwhelmed by the other team.
DELIGHT: I understand even your star player, Stephanie Stephenapolus
couldn't hit her stride.
MADELINE: That's right, Delight. Usually she makes 50% of
her field goal shots. Thursday night only 32% of her attempts
scored.
DELIGHT: How did you feel when Stephanie joined the team?
I understand she played for a small private school before this
year. Were you glad to have her join the team, or did you have
some misgivings?
MADELINE: Well, at first I was angry that Beach High School
would recruit this big star to play on our team. In fact, it
was one of our players who is her friend who recruited her. Were
a brand new team. Our school only opened a few years ago. All
of our starters are seniors this year, but when we started the
team, we didn't have any seniors. We were sophomores and juniors
playing against seasoned players and we got slaughtered.
DELIGHT: Are you saying that Stephanie helped make it possible
for your team to be the first Volusia County girls basketball
team to go to the semi finals in fourteen years?
MADELINE: Stephanie was part of the reason. Another part is
that we have a really good coach who doesn't give up. And another
part is like I said, our starters were all seniors this year.
They were smarter, and stronger, and more seasoned this year.
DELIGHT: I want to ask you how this situation challenged you
as a member of Growing Church to honor your second principle.
MADELINE: I've given that some thought, Delight. At first
I Didn't think it was just or equitable at all for Stephanie
to join our team. And then I got to thinking about how its a
free country, and as a resident of Volusia County she had just
as much a right to go to Beach as I did. And then I began to
see deeper into the situation. She's a really good player. If
she had continued at her old school, there's no way she would
have gone to the semi-finals. But because she did switch schools
and she did go to the semi-finals, she has a chance now for a
basketball scholarship.
DELIGHT: And how does that possibility fit with the second
principle?
MADELINE: You know what, I feel happy for her that she might
get a basketball scholarship. I guess that's compassion isn't
it?
DELIGHT: Id definitely say so. And it sounds as if you are
definitely following the Path of Harmony, viewing the world in
positive terms. What about your future Madeline?
MADELINE: Well, I wasn't a starter this season, and I have
another year to go at Beach before I graduate. Now that We've
played on that big Lakeland court, we know what That's all about.
So now I'm going to train really hard so I can have a chance
to be a starter next year. Who knows, I might even break Stephanie's
season average of scoring 20% of her field goal attempts. I'm
sure going to try.
DELIGHT: We wish you well, Madeline. Thanks for joining us
today. And that about wraps it up. We've been talking with members
of Growing Church in Daytona Beach about their commitment to
affirm and promote justice, equity and compassion in human relations.
This is your host, Delight Bruehl speaking to you from WUUC.
Good morning.
POSTSCRIPT What's real and what isn't: "Talk of Volusia"
modeled after "Talk of the Nation", a mid-day public
radio program Delight modeled after Ray Suarez, the host of "Talk
of the Nation" Roberta Betsy Johnson character real -- me
incident she described real, happened to me Bettye Collier-Thomas
-- real Daughter of Thunder real (hold up) Creating a Jubilee
World -- real Charley -- real Michael Gordon Hart character not
real incident he described real happened to Marv Hiles, editor
of the Daybook Ê Jeffrey Mark Lane character -- fictitious
Amnesty project very real wonderful youth group very real situation
in Rwanda and Kigali prison very real Madeline Mimi Ghosh character
fictitious\ Beach High School
really Atlantic situation real Atlantic was the first girls basketball
team to go to state semi-finals in 14 years, thanks to new starting
player with Greek name
entire starting team graduating
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